He left then Cheated ---Now What???

[Hope4us]

I'll admit I haven't read your whole story, but just from the last few posts I'll offer this.

Of course he doesn't want you to talk to his family and friends. Of course he doesn't want you to talk to OW. That would be shining the light on the cockroaches under the rock. Do you think he's going to like sitting with family and friends with OW when they KNOW the truth? NOPE. And that's when cracks in the "perfect" romance start to open up.

It's ok for him to read your email but you can't talk to family and friends for support? Huey. Talk to who you want to.

I don't think contacting OW will do any good, but it could have an affect on the affair, but it doesn't very often.

Never apologize for telling the truth. If he can't deal with it, tough.