thanks for the advice. Unfortunately got it a little too late. Went ahead and took his 3rd call and the usual spew came out. I am trying to manipulate him, I'm a controlling B!tch. Said sorry you feel that way, but had nothing to do with you. I was wanting answers for ME, and since you can not be honest with your answers I thought I would go to the other source. He screamed she has nothing to do with this, and I said once he brought her into the picture then she was involved as well. ARGGG! I wish I had a bat right now to hit him with.

He then admitted that he has been reading my email so I had to go back to all of my friends and tell them to start to contact me through a diff email. He wanted to know what I have been saying to everyone. I said the truth of course. Told me it was not my place to tell his family and friends. I said they are my family too and wanted to let them know why I was leaving. He told me to just leave his friends and family out of it from now on. Said I had no intention of talking to any of them again at this point.

He told me that he is in a better place and that the only time he gets overlly emotional is when he talks to me. He realizes that all R take work, but he is just done working on ours. It is dead in his mind. I am so angry and so hurt right now. How is it so easy for them to walk away and so hard for to pick ourselves back up!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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