Hey, Kerry! I'm going to be looking at a lot of things for help and I'd be interested if there are any titles that are better than others for me to look at for my particular situation.
I'm going to let her drive herself down w/ her anger. I'm not responsible for her anymore. It is 100% up to her to decide what type of relationship we'll have in the future - either together or as co-parents. I've done all I can and I'm going to be consistent, just like I have done all along.
She'll need to decide whether or not she'll drop the bitterness. I can't do that for her, unfortunately.