Thanks for the kind words everyone.

I still dunno if it was the right thing to do, but damned if I do nothing ya know.

Wife knows I sent this letter, needless to say she wasnt happy about it.

However, the day after she was very sweet to me and we had a very nice evening.

Rollercoaster still going though. I am doing my best to follow the advice of DBers in not getting too up/down but its tough not to.

Thanks for your replies!


Me: 37
Wife: 40
Son: 7yo
Son: 18 mo
Bomb: 12/31/07
Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now