I get where you're coming from Marcum, but I think it would be best to hold off on the financial things. Your wife is so back and forth with what she wants, this just might put her over the edge. I can see her getting mad about this. Besides, it can be done anytime. Don't rush it now unless you're needing the extra money. You have seperate households now. Once the money is seperated, where's the connection going to come from? See what I'm saying?
Clear as mud?
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."