whatdidido: Stay strong on not having her take them to school. She just wants the "easy feel good mommy" job of picking them up and taking them to school without the work of getting lunches packed, breakfast made, etc. She would get to lessen her guilt by thinking she "sees them every day". Messed up really.
Thank you I will not budge on this issue, she is messed up and you know what its doing to me:
Here is how I feel on a typical day
Is your wife a religious person at all? We always tried to do the right thing, we were both raised Catholic, we both tried to go to church on a regular basis, when D9 got into school, I tried to take her to church every Sunday, now I take all the kids every Sunday. W never goes anymore, last time she was in church, remember, she cried and I thought God would send down a bolt of lightning on her.
I was never more proud, when W accompanied the kids and I to church, I was truly in heaven, but the last time that happened was a long time ago
Thank you Sara, and whatdidido, and everyone, thank you all. There are so many of you out there, germ, cbk, karen, puppy, kat, lwb, h4h, I know I'm missing someone and I'm sorry, I do appreciate you all more than you will ever know, and I know I'm not your typical BDing person, thanks anyway, for keeping me company and understanding how I feel
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
