have you read the Michele W Davis: The Marriage Map ? Stage Three- Now is the time when many people face a fork in the marital road. Three choices become apparent. Convinced they've tried everything, some people give up. They tell themselves they've fallen out of love or married the wrong person and they divorce. Other people resign themselves to the status quo and decide to lead separate lives. But there are still others who decide that it's time to begin to investigate healthier and more satisfying ways of interacting. Although the latter option requires a major leap of faith, those who take this leap are the fortunate ones because the best of marriage is yet to come.
This sound like where you are at, I've said this before, your H is lucky to have you and we are lucky to have you here with us.
Lucky, Lucky, Lucky guy your H, he has you fighting, you are fighting the good fight, keep it up
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (walk away mom) 05/31/08
