Eagle, I believe Sara would be out $1,500 if she ended up putting the settlement on hold.

Sara, why not just postpone paying the lawyer for a few days? You and your H can see each other and you can establish what you need from him in order to hold off. BE strong, Sara. You've done such a fantastic job. Keep it up.

Do not worry about your dad. He's not going to be happy, but you need to put your desires first...

xo,

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence