Been there....called her....H cussed me out (only time in my life he has ever done that). It was ugly. I can say that the OW answered some questions that I had and cleared up some lies, but rather than that it wasn't a pretty situation. Don't call her because she isn't worth your time.

Let your H cool off for awhile...maybe several days. In the meantime detach as much as you can.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08