Matilda, I would likely enjoy the party. I'm not sure if planning a party with my W would be enjoyable or not.
I would have to clarify whose party is it? Is it her party, our party or mine? This would determine the nature of the party and the guest list.
She had mentioned some time ago, that she wanted me to host a party. As I've mentioned, she has a privacy issue and we haven't been a close public couple, so I would want to be clear as to who's hosting the party.
She's taken down our wedding pictures, and pictures of my family.
She has recently mentioned that she needs to ease her privacy rules. Hosting a party would be a stretch for her, as people would know where she lives, and get to view details of her life.
I wold likely consent to having a party, unless she wanted it be my party, that she happens to be invited to.
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