Matilda, I would not consider not going (did I say that right?). The fact is she raised her concerns. Is she being straightforward or not? I don't know.
I would consider it a significant setback (or realization), if she went on this trip without me. I would also hope that she would not plan a trip without me, but it's ultimately beyond my control if she were to be committed to doing so.
I don't think so, and I probably shouldn't have posted yet on the issue.
Thanks for your concern.
CL
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