Sara your H needs to make this a priority and SHOW you something. When is he not busy? There has to be some effort on his part. Let him SHOW you that he doesn't want this. Saying it is one thing, lets see some action. If there is no action...i.e. ending it with OW now, making an effort to do something right by you.

Actions not words, I forget that all the time.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option