Oh I totally agree brokenhearted...I just wish I had some middle ground between divorced and not divorced. If we could be legally seperated, that would really help me out emotionally. I think H would come over if he physically could. But his work schedule and school schedule is back to back and he isn't finished with either until 10:30pm each night. This isn't an excuse, but just how things are for him right now.

I don't have an appointment with the lawyer. I am just supposed to come into the office and pay her to get started with the paper work whenever I can this week.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08