If you can put off L without it costing you something, I say call L and tell him/her D is on hold.
You need to work it out in your mind - no rush. You have to be 100% sure, I sorry your H is going back and forth on you. I believe you posted some rules for reconciliation. If you didn't Puppy and others here can help you
(((SARA)))
We are all here for you
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08