What would happen if you rescheduled with the L and told H that if he really wanted this to work he needs to come over and talk. If he shows up establish group rules for R and that meens NC with OW. His life HAS to be an open book in order to gain back the trust that was lost. If he is not willing to do this, walk straight to the L becasue he is cake eating!!!!
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008