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i think we own too much of the crap that doesn't belong to us


I think we just feel that way since we are likely the ones that want to make our R and M work, hence the reason for us being here. If our spouses wanted to make things work then they would be here as well....

Honey is that you? (j/k)

Because we want to make it work so bad we take on the burden in the hope that if it is all my fault and I can fix the faults then everything will be ok. The logic might be a little flawed but if we didn't want it to work then their would likely be no guilt on our part (at least not now....it all has a way of coming out at somepoint)


TwinDad
Me 39, W 36, M 11
W - MLC, WAW????
2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old
Start of the Long and Bumpy Road.....
On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning