Amy....I don't think you DID hand it to him on a silver platter the way you described it.............I can't retrace it right now...but that is not the feeling I had from you post.

He probably isn't going to charge back after you.

But if you asked him what he really wanted....I don't think it would be to end it.

sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001