Dance, Great post. I can easily imagine myself kissing another woman. That is one of the problems, I have no problem being attracted to many of the women I see around me who are beautiful in my eyes. It is that I don't feel much towards my wife any more.
Two things I would like to throw out here: 1) My wife has never liked to kiss, at least not me. Our first kiss was at the wedding - her idea. I can't really remember the last time we kissed during sex. Remember - this is HER thing, not mine. I used to love to kiss with previous girlfriends. The thought still drives me crazy, even now... I don't know how to put this in my wife's context. To that end, attempting a kiss probably has a higher chance of rejection than asking for sex! 2) It looks as though my self defense mechanism is stronger than I thought. Here I can now be in a room with a good looking naked woman and only look her in the eye! Do you have any idea how unnatural this is? How many guys look you in the eye when you are fully dressed?
