RTL, I have been away for a while and things seem to going down the same path w/ your W. I hate to say it but do not worry about it. I am sure by now you can only control yourself and do the best with what you got at the time. If she can not control her anger and understand the situation then it is her loss.
Keep doing what is best for you and your D. That is all you can do right now. Trust me it is a struggle and you seem to be doing the best you can. I am coming up on a year since my separation and I can tell you it gets better. You are the only person that can dictate how much better it gets. Take care...
Me=29 WAW=25 S=2 "I need a break" = 6/07 Filed = 12/07