Good. Good. Good. It's about time someone called him out. There is NO way he can ignore what others are saying. I'm not saying he'll make any changes because of it. Most likely he may find ways to villainize you to make himself feel better about what he's doing. You are doing all the right things, Jenny. There really isn't much more you can do. It's gonna run it's course. But, I love, love, love that your friend laid it on the line for him. And, with any luck, one day (preferably soon) H will look at OW and think... Jesus, this is what I destroyed my life for. Then he can villainize her instead.
Good luck to you.
On another note - C-section scheduled for June 19th. Getting scary.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him