I know you are of strong Faith. I have the book the power of the praying parent. No I do not read it everyday, but I do try to really focus my prayers in the area of my children.
Things will fall into place, it is frusterating at times for sure.
When my kids spend the night with the X. They Cling to me when they come home. They need to spend the night in my bed usually when they come home.
It takes them a while to wind down.
They do not keep a schedule when they are with him.
Showers? Um not usuall when they are with him
Eating right? Um not usually when they are with him.
Having fun? well um ofcourse. Doing things they don't want to do? well um ofcourse.
I am not trying to be negative with you at all, lovey.
I just want you to maybe be prepard for some stuff.
Other things that have helped me, is I don't ask what did you do with papi this weekend.
They usually come to me with it, and it is usually followed with tears, if they have to go to OW's house.
So just be ready with the kisses and the hugs, and the ears to listen. I know you will
Be ready to bite the tongue too. ACK that is the hardest.
I usually try to have a home cooked meal ready for when the come home, and they can get back to some normalcy.
To think that our babies have to do this, still makes me want to set the X's on fire.
God is soo good to me, and has kept me away from matches.
(((((((((((((cat)))))))))))
It will be something else that you will , get thru.
YOu will be amazed and your continued strentgh lovey
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