Your situation is classic textbook walk away wife.
She's not having an MLC.
She's not having an affair.
She's simply reached a point where things in life are such that she feels capable of ending a marriage that has been unfulfilling to her for far too long.
Don't get in to playing word games with others on here who will try to convince you to kick her butt out the door.
Everything in those books applies PERFECTLY to your situation.
For crying out loud, you've already carried out MUCH of what is in those books as suggestions for restoring your marriage.
Things are good, not bad.
Honestly, if this thing fails, it will because you grew impatient and quit.
Blessings,
Bill
Bill I did not come back to this thread for just that reason....have been trying to stay with my first....I thought a little about the MLC, but you know how I feel about the way i treated my wife....I know why she is unhappy.
Also, no one will ever convince me she is having an affair. It is natural I suppose to have those thoughts cross ones mind, but it passes quickly.
The last couple of days talking to all of you over on my original thread has me thinking clearly and focused....thank you....(although there was a little issue last night you will read about if you go over there).
Most comments throughout this site are positive, but I can tell when someone is trying to stir things up, trust me...
