"hey im sorry for last night. i really appreciate you coming by and bringing food and putting up with me. and just being a good sport, i know how much i was aggrevating you. i cant really express how grateful i am for you, but it does make me feel like a creep how good you are to me and yet im still a dick sometimes. anyway i just wanted to apologize and to say thank you"
Ok, I kind of suspected his initial tears were because I brought him food. He saw it as a sweet gesture and thought it was something I certainly didn't have to do but did it anyway. He is kind of sensitive so I suspected that, I just wasn't sure. From his email I think that was the case.
I am not sure what was wrong when he really started crying though. He hasn't done anything lately to be a "dick" to me...not that I know about anyway.
I guess he just has a lot going through his mind right now.
Yeah, you are right. Could have been months ago, could be leftover. Who knows. Even if it is something going on now he realizes it is wrong. I really don't think it is something going on now though.
Oh yeah, meant to comment on the aggravating part. He kept messing with me last night (tickling me and just kind of being annoying). I just said "Why are you aggravating me so much?" He said "that is the way I show my affection". I am not sure why he felt the need to bring it up in the email unless he thought I was frustrated with him because of it. I wasn't, but maybe it came off that way.
He kept messing with me last night (tickling me and just kind of being annoying). I just said "Why are you aggravating me so much?" He said "that is the way I show my affection". I am not sure why he felt the need to bring it up in the email unless he thought I was frustrated with him because of it. I wasn't, but maybe it came off that way.
Well, he's definitely done being mopey and serious for the moment lol.
Did you guys used to play around a lot more, or is this new? Do you think you reacted differently then?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Yeah, that was after his crying spell. I think he was trying to lighten the mood.
We did used to pay around a lot more. It is nothing new in our R....but new since the bomb. I think I reacted the same as usual. I HATE HATE HATE to be tickled. He knows that, but he thinks it is hillarious.
Sometimes I probably do get frustrated because he does it and I can't relax. Just annoying sometimes....although I don't really think I came off as frustrated last night.
I guess I should think about how I act in those situations because it is obviously fun and playful to him. ...It is to me too..I just don't like to be tickled!
Yeah, I'm not thrilled with being tickled either, and I would probably have to sort of force myself to see the "fun" and not annoyed aspect to it too. But I too think it's a great sign. I'd wish for anythign just to laugh with my H about anything right now. Enjoy these moments of levity. I'm so hoping you guys can stay the course and get it all back. You give me hope!
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
Thanks Chris. I do think it is a good sign and shows that he is feeling more and more comfortable around me. Things are going good for now...so I will just sit back and enjoy it.
