i know it sounds like excuse making but she wasn't sneaky, she told me about dude hitting on her before any of this happened. she needs to be alone, he is a landing pad. i'm not saying she is going to come crawling back next week, i wouldn't want her to. trust my judgement. she is smart enough to see through kari's lies, and trust me there have been many. i need to be still, i need to live my life. xf is being lied to and played by two different people. we all have ben through this. she was confused, you all saw and said that seeing my first posts. wht changed things was my behavior and kari's manipulation. if it never happens again it never does. i have no pride when it comes to this. for 5 months she was a wonderful woman, at this point should i really let emotional behavior of 4 days cloud that?
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
