Dar, my H would say 'nothing' too, and blame on work stress as well...DOn't have a clue what he remembers now...

I have to say that my sitch is different in that my H, when I ask him, always says he is IN LOVE with me...that he never wanted anyone else. When I ask if he is 'in love' with anyone else, he say no. I'm not sure I believe him but I don't press and I don't ask anymore...

SO, is your H still angry? Mine is not....he is in the whiny, selfish stage...or whatever...

My H has pretty much forgotten much of what he said in his anger period...like as if he never said it...

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller