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[fig]

Tiger

What to say

I am sorry that these things are happening to you...

Lissie said wonderful things

listen to her

this is all ick
and
i have nothing important to say other than I am so sorry

[phoenyx]

thing is, she wasn't selfish at all. she is a very reactionary person, she is also confused. the door will be open

[AmyC]

Dude I think you need to open your eyes and listen to Lis.

I hear a whole lot of denial in your posts.

Or is that foolish pride?

Think about it...

And pray maybe for eyes to see.

Because what I see ain't so pretty.




You're in my thoughts today ~


Amy

[phoenyx]

what do you see

[phoenyx]

i know it sounds like excuse making but she wasn't sneaky, she told me about dude hitting on her before any of this happened. she needs to be alone, he is a landing pad. i'm not saying she is going to come crawling back next week, i wouldn't want her to. trust my judgement. she is smart enough to see through kari's lies, and trust me there have been many. i need to be still, i need to live my life. xf is being lied to and played by two different people. we all have ben through this. she was confused, you all saw and said that seeing my first posts. wht changed things was my behavior and kari's manipulation. if it never happens again it never does. i have no pride when it comes to this. for 5 months she was a wonderful woman, at this point should i really let emotional behavior of 4 days cloud that?

[phoenyx]

i guess where i am at, is the girl needs to be alone. she needs to fix herself, no one is going to fix her. i wouldn't want to. why should yet another aspect of my life get sucked into the drama of me and kari. this probably would have ended up alright, we could have at least had a friendship. kari sucked it all out. i am responsible for my reactions, but why does this have to be another chalk up for kari. she didn't want us together, she doesn't want jaime in her kids lives, she doesn't want me happy. after seeing how many people just don't talk to me after swallowing kari's $#!t why can't this 1 person, that has memories with me, that has a connection with me, why do you think she won't see through it. when is this going to be my life and not mine and kari's?

[fig]

I remember feeling that way too...like how could people buy his bs???

they don't always

there are some that just need a moment to catch their thoughts

just because they hear it doesn't mean they listen too it

[AmyC]

what do you see

Instablility, lack of loyalty and a lack of integrity for starters.

But just because that's the case in this instance doesn't mean thats how she conducts herself at all times.

It is cause for pause though, in my opinion.

I'm sorry but you asked Blynd and I ain't gonna BS you.

[phoenyx]

I don't want you to BS me. This isn't the person that she was everyday I was with her. This is somene week, and sucked in. I am letting her go. But I believe this is right, I believe that she is in my future. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong. But I am the most skeptical person when it comes to this. I'd know. No Kari, she would have called.