Here's the deal.....

X-W not only has abnormal PAP smear, she tested positive for HPV and it's the strain that most commonly results in cancer.

With me 8 1/2 years; no HPV.

With OM 1 1/2 years; HPV.

Rocket scientist; not needed.

Yesterday I was in a state of shock. This AM I'm a little pissed. I'm pissed at OM. I'm pissed at X-W for having unprotected sex with this POG. Part of me wants to help her and part of me wants to wash my hands of her.

And it ain't no bed of roses in lala land. They were already having a "tiff" (her words). Yesterday Am she made the comment, "I'm not happy with the male of the species right now."

Once again I feel caught in a catch 22.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13