BF, sorry you are going through this, the important thing is that you have your integrity and you know it. You rushed too much this marriage thing, and this is a fact. Don't try to justify yourself or explain with new H, you don't have to.... if asked give your version. With ex-W good thing you had the chance to clarify what really happened, also if a bit late.... still better then never. Now she can believe whatever. You are clean. Your new GF should trust your word more then the one of ExW, but she is freaked out because of the marriage pressure and if a palm reader told her you are a killer she would probably believe it... or at least she would have doubts. I think when she cools down a bit she is going to think a bit straighter, but I don't know if it is worth to wait. What upsets me , and this is personal, is how fast this women find an "alternative", another guy..... What a heck... slow down a bit! What is the rush... they jump from one men to another like they were fresh water! This, I think, tells you A LOT about how much they value a relation.
