Too late for DB, thread 7

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Mink, when you see me being inconsistent, bring me a 2x4! In our relationship, H was the stable one and I was unstable.

Couple of interesting happenings on H's side. Tonight the kids and I were at our next door neighbor's house swimming (our pool is in their backyard, hehehe) and I called to let H know that the kids' bag and carseats would be on the porch for him and to come by when he arrived here. H comes over, we did the no-kiss-cheek-touch hug and the neighbors, H and I were sitting around relaxing as the kids swam. After ten minutes or so, Gary offers H a drink. I thought H would take that as the opportunity to leave, but takes a beer instead and stays to chat for quite a while. H later leaves (I don't get up to hug him, first day without any kiss I think EVER) and neighbors ask me to stay for dinner. All good.

Come home, log in and see messages that just today H added my 22-year old niece as a friend on his Facebook and added her 20-year old bro last week. Nephew just graduated AF basic this past weekend and H sent him an email. WTH?

I see my H as one confused puppy. He doesn't want to come back, but doesn't want to break away. I guess I should remember that actions speak louder than words and he's had plenty of time to break away.

I'm still dark.