also had it out with new husband, he says they refuse to believe me because guess what? i'm a liar. again, the only proof he had i shot down and offered to confront the person he told me said what i apparently said. i tried to make things right by sending an email saying that i now understood why xw has been the way she has been and based on what she believed, that she was justified. xf was included in the email(this was before she called me). it would have been easier to lie.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.