No she has not brought up the date that was supposed to happen.
She does have me very confused. It seems that when I am trying to be the "new and improved" version of me she responds very nicely as one would imagine. And then the next minute she is asking me to go over the details of the divorce
As for her trying to control me I try not to let that happen anymore. I have been saying n quite a bit now, but have come to accept the fact that she might divorce me either way. I am coming to terms with this and as I stated before there is nothing I can do to change her mind or feelings I can only show her what she is going to miss out on.
Yes I think the best thing is for you to not answer the phone when you need to, and if she says anything just say, oh sorry I was [whereever in a general way] without explaining too much.
And if she gets angry and threatens divorce just stay calm and say, look if you want to get divorced that's fine, but don't threaten me everytime you get upset. Why don't you explain to me what is going on that is getting you so upset right now?
Originally Posted By: jonzy
Tink did you go on a mini vacation?
I spent the weekend at my fiance's. He lives in the next state. I took last weekend off for myself because I was getting very annoyed with him and I realized it was coming from my fear of us moving up to our new level, plus I was spreading myself thin working five jobs. The weekend did us both good and I appreciated how much he missed me and the attention was great.
