And that is the beauty of it .. Wii.. If there is such a thing. We start the "bed of roses" about 4 years too late, eh ?.. and then expect them to react positively. Perhaps they do not deserve a bed of roses.. I think I do, eh ?
Detachment ? There are many good resources here for the defintion. What are YOU doing for YOU ? YOU are all you have and will have jsyk, h4h.
Again.. this is not about your soon to be exw.. or the other man.. It is about YOU !.. Bed of roses or no bed of roses..
Detach.. Take care of YOU.. find YOU.. Love yourself !.. and be kind to you. Take good care of who you have always been. OH.. and OM is the problem. if you have not detached.. and have your own self understanding and peace of mind. I think all of us went through that at one time or another.
