Breton, yeah, as my tag line reads, I was told our marriage was in a "funk". It wasn;t until he started his PA that he told me that he was unhappy.

Guess how he chose to address it was to have the physical affair. In truth, that is not handling it all...

Guess they have not handled things well at all...we have to be the ones to handle things...we have to be the ones to be strong during this storm...

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller