Too late for DB, thread 7

[minkerman]

CW....

You are doing great. But girl, be consistent. When you feel like NOT being consistent, post here. Letting him do some of the work, and you being consistent, is (I believe) your best chance.

You need to be a bit unpredictable.

My DB counselor told me I was the stable one, W was the unstable one.

So my task was to do things that she would see as out of character for me (breaking her stereotype of me). I think that was what eventually brought her back.

Breaking up the marriage was HER idea. Until we had the "breakup dinner" (coined by me) and I told her I was wishing her well, but moving on.

She came back the next day.

I love my DB counselor.

Anyway, I wish you all the best. I'm still watching all you guys. I am not complacent by any means...after all, one false move and I could end up back here!!!!