What I might add is that both of you are quite tender right now and feel quite delicate emotion wise from the sounds of it. Either of you accidentally or pushing boundaries or expectations of each other is going to cause a LOT of upset at the moment.
Just keep exploring the good in every moment, keep doing things to be positive. Let every ray of sun in and enjoy that warmth. Keep talking wiht your husband.
If he's anything like me, he likely doesn't want any daunting questions right now like "how are you feeling right now" etc.
Will x make you more comfortable, will y make you at all uncomfortable etc...this is a more targeted approach that he can offer responses to.
Just try t ocomfort each other, and guide him to comfort you as well. If you want him to put his arms around you when you are watching tv do it FOR him and show him how good you feel...next time he will likley do it without the help.
He needs cautious, tender, compassionate guidance with no pressures for expectations or boundaries pressed to limits, you likley need the same.
its good if he was ok with the nightclub.. My self I would have been upset until you came home. It might take me a bit to explain, let me know if you are interested.
Anyhow he sounds as if it was ok with him, maybe if you were alone it might be diffrent.
