Breathe deep, breathe deep. We all know you dont want this. The fact is that your H is being a complete sh!t to you right now and it is not healthy for you. You have tried so many things to get his respect and kindness and he still refuses to treat you with compasion. Unless he comes over tonight and begs you for another chance, agrees to MC and NC with OW this just might be the step you have to take to get to a better place. If he does not do those things, then you know he is not respecting you and is caking eating. Time to make him wake up to the reality of his choices. IMO.I know it is said over and over again here, but just becasue someone files does not mean the R is over.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
