So here I sit. More calm, happier and I can see a future that will be GREAT without her. And all I have to do is take one step at a time and watch the pieces fall into place. Yeah, it wont be easy. It will hurt at times. Ill get burned and rejected again. Ill have to stick my neck out and take chances. But thats life. At least I know the women out there cant do ANYTHING worse than what my ex did
Bill_S,
You are right...... I can tell you without fail.... It is VERY painful.... I have sooooooooo been there...... You may crash and burn in other Rs........ That is life..... Try.... Fail... Fall flat on your face..... Get up..... Try again.....
I love the fact I am married to an awesome woman waaaaaaayyyyyyyy beyond what my exW could ever hope to be....... She loves and adores me for who I REALLY am....... She said something last night..... She said, "Honey, if your Dad were here right now, he would so proud of the man you are. NOT the success as far as your career and money go.. But for the man you are inside and your character." That was so moving........
My exW can have whatever life she chooses....... She has to live with what she did.... How she treated someone who loved her so much.... ALL of the rude and cruel things she said.... How she broke her vows she made before God..... Last... She will have to live with the regret of all of this.... For the next forty or so years.......
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
