Hi Ingrid,
I'm so sorry you and H are back in this place. I don't understand the whole online affair thing at all, but it must be really hard to deal with. Does your H want to stop? Does he expect your M to exist while he does this? What does he get from an OA?

Maybe it IS time for you to put your foot down. I don't know. Wish I could be more help.

hugs.

Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08