BND, I went to visit Torito and he walked of his own accord into the 'visiting' room!!!
I rubbed and scratched his belly...he loved it...then when it came time for me to leave, he wanted to go home too....my poor lovey!
True, I doubt that ANY of our S's were thinking positively regarding our marriages. And they would never tell us outright...my H didn't...maybe it is because they want to have their cake and eat it too.
sigh.....
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller