Read about you on another thread, and thought I'd stop by. I really don't know enough about your sitch to be of intelligent help to you, other than to offer some e-hugs and some words of encouragement tonite.
My wife left me last summer for her personal trainer, 20 years her junior. I know how it feels. At this point last year, it looked HOPELESS, but now we're back together, she's had no contact since last August, and we're good friends again and working on things. It DOES get better.
I gotta tell you, the anti-depressants really helped me. In fact, I still take them, just to "even me out" a little. I've had a hard time with this stretch of the calendar now, as I'm now into the "one year ago today" dates, but other than that, it's been okay.
