Im not sure what I said that helped but Im glad it did. Sometimes we just need to hear the right things at the right time I guess. I know Ive gotten some wise words from chevelle just when I needed them too. I think part of this is healing enough to share. We all have something that can help someone else.
Take care, Bill
--I dont get on the forum much but I always check my email.
Bill,
The following really hit home:
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I DONT need the ex. None of us do!! If they chose divorce or to walk out of our lives its THEIR problem. Even if we had our own issues which added to the problem. We DIDNT deserve it and we WILL survive and have lives far better than we would have otherwise. Sometimes we just lose sight of that because we are hurting. But God will give us more than we have lost. It just takes time.
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
