Just got caught up reading your post. We are going through the same hell and my heart goes out to ya. Like you I am not the alpha male. I have let my wife call the shots from the begining. How do you detach from your wife when they pull the Dr Jekyl and Mr(s) Hyde card. They act as if they are so happy to be with you even initiating some physical contact. But if you cross their imaginary line they pull back fast. Even if you are good and don't screw up, they feel guilty the next day for leading you on and are as cold as ever. Please give me your insight on how to conquer this rollercoaster.
