ROP, I hope you are reading, rereading, rereading and rereading --- and making notes of the information in Michelle's books. You need to start DBing your a$$ off. Don't ever give W any information about trying to make her jealous or manipulate this situation (you have lost that card mister!!!). You are only making this easier for her to go. And whatever you do, don't get mad, angry, blaming or negative because you want her to regret losing such a great guy. And anything negative only makes it easier for her to move further away. Because she won't take your anger personally, she just will it as YOU being the problem.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
