I would think that going dark in your case would allow you more freedom to heal and move one. If W decides she wants to return, then you can decide if that fits into your life as you have rebuilt it. If she does, that's awesome! If not, then you have your life.

That's the theory, anyway. Easier said than done, I know.


Me45 W35 M6 T8
D16 SD11 D0
Dec 07: Bomb
July 08: Busted!
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