Well, going dark isn't quite right. Going grey? I'm not initiating contact but apparently W fears she'll turn into a pumpkin after 2 weeks of no contact because in 7 months she hasn't made it beyond that without seeing me in person.
Thanks kat - I guess I AM doing it for peace and clarity. I know in my heart that we should have had a chance to work on M for the simple reason that it can be saved. She just doesn't know that, or won't admit it. Stubborn.
