W just left my office. She "dropped by" a piece of mail that didn't forward for some reason. Then she needed to tell me all the fun and interesting things she's doing. She also invited me to her choir concert, though who knows if OM would be there - he certainly will be at her party. And she wanted to know about the stuff I have going on. I acted cheerful and busy and eventually said I had to get back to work.
Anyway, we chatted in the usual amicable way. W left and my office mate turned to me and said, "Okay, that's just weird. She's divorcing you and you guys can talk like that? I don't think she knows WHAT she wants."
I agree, but don't necessarily think she's missing me - just trying to be friends. Who knows. Not me anymore. So DB would tell me to be the good friend, but it also says to pay attention to what works and what has worked has been the LRT and going dark. But if I keep doing that to hold onto hope for reconciliation with W, I'm denying my own chance to move on and heal.
