lwb I don't know what to think. I always thought she was very much in love with me when we where together. Something "strange" happened that put her in this big crisis and she thought divorce was the only solution and she set her mind to go with it no matter what. Today she got a bit emotional but I am sure she is going to close that door as soon as she can.... probably it is already closed.
When I asked her if she wanted to sign another day she actually answerd, "no let's go.... we can always get married again" I said "I don't think so".
Anyway, as long as OM is in the picture there is nothing I can do. She said that OM is not the problem, I answerd that for sure is not the solution.