He SHOULD be scared of what he is losing. Heck...he is losing me, which is the best thing that could have happened to him, he is losing his house, his security, everything he is used to for what??? For nothing.....for a woman who won't be around forever, who has the exact same low paying job that he has, 2 children to care for, no home etc etc. This is by far the dumbest thing he has ever done in his life and I hope it is scaring him to no end.
I know that there will be a day when he is going to wake up and realize what he has done. That he could have been in a good marriage and had the American dream of a life but he decided to throw that all away. And he will see me with someone else living out the life that he could have had and he will just kick himself over it.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
Sara: He SHOULD be scared of what he is losing. Heck...he is losing me, which is the best thing that could have happened to him,
I love it, I let my W take anything she wanted when she moved out, because those things didn't matter, its the love part I feel so bad about losing, her love for me, You are probably the best thing that ever happened to your H, why are people so stupid. You have a good W a good home, church, and you piss it all away.
Sara, you deserve better, you don't deserve this. I'll keep my eye on your post, have to go now, check on you tomorrow morning
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
Sara: He SHOULD be scared of what he is losing. Heck...he is losing me, which is the best thing that could have happened to him,
I love it, I let my W take anything she wanted when she moved out, because those things didn't matter, its the love part I feel so bad about losing, her love for me, You are probably the best thing that ever happened to your H, why are people so stupid. You have a good W a good home, church, and you piss it all away.
Sara, you deserve better, you don't deserve this. I'll keep my eye on your post, have to go now, check on you tomorrow morning
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
Hi SS, Haven't dropped in in a while, just catching up on some folks. You are on the right path - take care of YOU first, and either he'll pull his head out of his rear, or he won't. Hang in there!
Originally Posted By: Starshyne
The whole shirt thing is cracking me up as well. I know he is wearing them because I took all of his clothes and moved them out to the garage (too lazy to get his clothes)& he hasnt' done any laundry in 3 weeks and is running out of clothes. The shirts he is wearing are just Tshirts that a man or a woman would wear. I actually think the one he was wearing today I bought in the men's department. But still...he is wearnig my clothes! That is so strange!
OK, this really struck me as the ultimate in lazy and disrespectful. My suggestion: Spray all of your clean T-shirts in your closet with a strong, floral perfume.
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
He never did call me back. But then I know that he has his classes tonight. I am just curious what he wants, especially after yesterday when he would not speak one word to me.
I started filling out divorce papers today. Had to write down our names, date of birth, etc. My goodness this is hard. Even just writing down that stuff made me tear up. I can see that this isn't going to be easy. I might be doing this but it still isn't what I want.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
I wonder as well. I assume that his haircut (the man gets his haircut more than anyone I have ever known!) took longer than he expected and he had to go staight to school. It was 3:15 when he called and school starts at 4. I think he might call me if he gets a break if he really wanted to.... It just makes me curious. He knows that I go to the lawyer to start the ball rolling tomorrow. Is it bad that I hope that he has had a change of heart?
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
If you love your husband, then it is not bad to hope for him to have a change of heart. We don't always do the "right" thing when it involves the one we love. If I were in your shoes(or if I was your H, your shirt)I would be hoping the same thing up until the last second.
That to me is our unconditional love. That is what I have for my wife.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
