The person wanting to have the affair actually told their Spouse that they were unhappy and wanted to work on the Marriage BEFORE they unzipped their pants.....
I think that we told EACH other this, a few times, in different ways.
It didnt' sink in till months after he left me. When i really sat down, and focused on what i had done to contribute to demise of my marriage.
When i look back it was really not all out of the blue.
I just didn't have the knowledge I have now.
One day in one of Javier's civil moments, he did apologize to me. He did admit he rewrote some history, he did admit, that we didn't listen to each other. He did admit he took the cowards way out.
Live and learn. It has been an expensive lesson. It is a lesson, that I would go thru again though.
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