The person wanting to have the affair actually told their Spouse that they were unhappy and wanted to work on the Marriage BEFORE they unzipped their pants.....
I think in (many/a few) did. I think that until we became LBSs and learned how to listen we didn't hear, believe, or understand what was wrong.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
